Which means a few great things: no classes, the chance to meet new people outside of your college, and more free time on nights and weekends how great is not having homework? Yes, post-college guys wear suits!
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And have money to take you out to dinner! And are mature enough to talk about things other than chugging Bud Light in their frat houses well, hopefully!
But should you be wary if a guy in his mid-to-late twenties or thirties approaches you at a bar? But you may be wondering, why do these guys seem so interested in us? Well, as it turns out, college girls are pretty appealing to older guys.
Here are some of the reasons they like going for younger girls:. To older guys, college girls mean one thing: FUN! Complete with capital letters. By dating a college-aged girl, the guy may be attempting to relive the college experience and recreate the feeling of sexual liberty he experienced as an undergrad. Guys also may want to date a younger girl because it might be easier to impress her sexually. It takes the pressure off of him!
We make him feel good about himself Sometimes we all need a little ego boost.
An older guy may start dating a younger girl because doing so makes him feel a little bit better about himself. Younger girls are still figuring out the world and not pushing him to have kids and get married. If we meet him over the summer, the dating experience is like any other summer fling — it has a set end date. Okay, so older guys may be afraid of commitment and looking for an ego boost.
Instead, assess each guy individually. You may end up finding a great, sincere older man.
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But for us, age was just a. When we were together, there were no barriers and no awkwardness.
In a world where everyone is obsessed with finding romance, if two people can get along together and feel for each other, why not let it happen and enjoy it? Carole Lieberman, M. He proved to me that he was sincere by caring about my day-to-day life, and he spent the time to get to know my friends.
As with all relationships, communication is essential. He was more mature and seemed more on my level. He was over the college years, while I was right in the middle of mine. Luckily, we compromised, which really helped! Then, neither one of you will have to give up a part of your life completely.
Make sure you have the same expectations, and take things slowly! And never give up hope : that older guy may turn out to be the love of your life.
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Allie Weiss. Here are some of the reasons they like going for younger girls: 1.
Allie is a junior at Princeton University where she is majoring in English. A native of San Francisco, Allie loves living on the East Coast but will probably never learn how to walk in the snow without slipping — or, more accurately, face planting.
In her free time, Allie can usually be found scouting out local coffee shops, wondering if it's possible to be a foodie who doesn't cook, and pretending to get lost in cities though she always carries directions, and is never, in fact, lost. Allie plans to pursue a career in magazine journalism and spent the summer as an intern for Surface Magazine in New York. Good stuff only! We wanna slide into your DMs but via .